We are so different yet so similar…
Some days back I saw Salam Namastee… it was a good movie… but I’m not giving any review about the movie… but there are certain things which I kept thinking about… would like to share some of those…
In many Hindi movies, for love to grow couples need to have same food taste, same ice cream flavour, same colour choice, liking the same sport, n all such scrap… but in Salam Namastee things were different… it reminded me of my relationship with my GF…
There are a hell lot of things where we differ…
She likes spicy food… I don’t
I’m a Sweet freak… she HATES sweets…
She is quite diet conscious... I give a damn
I don’t like PaniPuri… She can’t live without it
Her Fav soft drink is Thumps up… Mine is Sprite
Her Fav fruit is Grappes… Mine is Pineapple
If she buys for me… she ends up picking some shade of White
Whereas me buying for self end up picking up some shade of Blue
She loves to walk… I hate it
She loves hill stations… I love beaches
In many Hindi movies, for love to grow couples need to have same food taste, same ice cream flavour, same colour choice, liking the same sport, n all such scrap… but in Salam Namastee things were different… it reminded me of my relationship with my GF…
There are a hell lot of things where we differ…
She likes spicy food… I don’t
I’m a Sweet freak… she HATES sweets…
She is quite diet conscious... I give a damn
I don’t like PaniPuri… She can’t live without it
Her Fav soft drink is Thumps up… Mine is Sprite
Her Fav fruit is Grappes… Mine is Pineapple
If she buys for me… she ends up picking some shade of White
Whereas me buying for self end up picking up some shade of Blue
She loves to walk… I hate it
She loves hill stations… I love beaches
She like snakes… I’m dead scared of them
She is scared of cats… I love playing with them
She knows all my favorites…
She is scared of cats… I love playing with them
She knows all my favorites…
I had to SMS her and check some of hers
She never liked guys who were surrounded by girlz…
I’m a kind of guy who has got max female friends…
She rips apart a guy… who tries to flirt around with her
…flirting is my nature ;-)
She has done a diploma in fashion designing
I’m pathetic with dress sense…
Playing with financial numbers is my profession…
She is too shy to bargain even for prices for her services
She never liked guys who were surrounded by girlz…
I’m a kind of guy who has got max female friends…
She rips apart a guy… who tries to flirt around with her
…flirting is my nature ;-)
She has done a diploma in fashion designing
I’m pathetic with dress sense…
Playing with financial numbers is my profession…
She is too shy to bargain even for prices for her services
...
...
...
I’m sure there would some more points to add to this list…
But it doesn’t make a difference to us… coz we have naturally got so used to each other and we can’t see any difference unless someone points it out…
And we love to fight with each other… actually if we don’t fight we do not feel comfortable… since years both of us have been the same… just that every fight has brought us more closer and we cant live without it…
And since we both feel that we have found that one person we would love to annoy for the rest of our lives we had given a serious consent and go ahead to our relationship…
But then that’s my life… would you like to share your thoughts….
Do you feel such pity things like, same colour, food, ice cream taste matters…
Does it matters how similar your liking is or is that… opposites attract…
What would be the selecting/deciding factor(s) you would see in this so-called closest relationship???
posted by PuNeEt at 9:56 AM
37 Comments:
omg , me 1st again..lolzz
yeppieeeeeeee
wowwww nice post ,
***Do you feel such pity things like, same colour, food, ice cream taste matters…
Does it matters how similar your liking is or is that… opposites attract…***
yet to find my IM ... anyways when i find him will reply to ur this Q, hugss p000
u both r damnn cute n lucky!!!
st000nie
@ Strawy
Yet again ur first...
Congrats baby....
Hmmm my blog is in constant observation ;-)
Thanks so much baby
I'll be waiting for ur reply...
n would love to knw the qualities u have thought in ur IM ;-)
Thanks so much baby
Hugggzzzz
Its the similarities which kinda attracts in the begining just so a couple can relate to the common likes and dislikes which bring them together. I think its much later in due time when the closeness level is attained that you discover one another's true choices.
Common or opposite doesnt really matter if the bond is strong. But yeah the more the common, less the fights, both can be easily agreeable on things :)
she loves you...
you love her...
...............
that's all...
puneet ..
this is such a sweet post ..i loved it re ...
me n st00nie sailing in the same boat ..:p need to find my IM tooo
hehehhe
hugzzzz have a gr8 day ..
will comment later on this :p
uttara
st000nie .... u first all the time ...hmmmmmmmmm grrrrrr...
wait now :p lemme come on YM hehehhe
hugzz
liking/ doing / wanting the same things can be the most boring thing on earth...
Walla...walllaa..
itna difference...
Me always try to change ma choices to suit her needs...but ultimately things jsut scrw up..
So I think I need to keep ma choices the way they are, coz anyway, things are not going to work in the end...hehehe
Nice one Puneet..
Lemme read it again :)
Greetz!!
WOW..wht an obsercation !!
I saw salam namastay too but never thought of thinking something like this..infact am wondering how come i dint noticed such a big point of the movie..Well may be b'cz i have none to compare my fav's with... hehehehhe...lols
Comming to the point of difference in choice ...i personally believe tht a realtion is based on understanding... & maturity is needed for sure! I mean one shuld understand tht every individual has his own way of thinking and so is with choice..so a relation must not be effected with those mere things..as today if i love blue color..its not tht i will love it for the rest of my life...The only thing which counts is understanding..b'cz understanding someone is wht caring is..and caring is wht love needs :)
So in a nutshell..No contribution of similar taste is needed in true love ! :)
@ Ephemeral
Thank u dear
In way agree with ur view…
when the closeness level is attained that you discover one another's true choices
This is true… that’s the phase when u are in the real relationship ;-)
Cheers
@ Avik
Hey good to see u after a long time…
That’s short n sweet…
Cheers
@ Uttara
Thank u soo much
Same reply to u too…
What qualities u have thought in ur IM…
Will me waiting for ur comment….
Ye st000nie has taken the first place in my blog… and is consistent hmmm
St000nie baby u have a competition now ;-)
Take care
Cheers
@ Brood Mode
That’s true…
Agree wit u
Cheers
@ Arz000n
Hi buddy…
Yes lots of difference… may be coz we have always portrayed the real self…
Don’t change too much for anyone… it all falls in place…
What is the prime quality ur look into while selecting ur mate…
Hmmmm
Catch the opportunity ;-)
Cheers
@ Raj
Hiii Welcome to my Blog…
Thanks for sharing ur view…
Yes it does depend a lot on the understanding…
Keep coming
Cheers
gumnaaaam
Hiiiii
Thank u so much for sharing ur thought
I’m impressed
Yes I agree wit you that it’s more about understanding
understanding someone is wht caring is..and caring is wht love needs :)
This is so true… very well said
Thank u so much dear…
Take care
Cheers
But dont u think ppl come closer with common interests...or if it is love-at-first-sight then its a different story..which doesnt last long i think..
Liking a person and accepting him/her the way they are should be both ways..
so did u like the songs from tht link or not ??
Yep yep...me happieeee! :)
U're right...such tweeny weeny little things dont matter in the long run, even if they do initially!
T'was completely different for me and ma ex too....lol probably tht's why hez ma ex! hahaaa . kidding
I think if the couple has same/similar taste, it wud be too too too boring...innit? life can not be fun without those kinna clashes...when she wants to go for something n u wanna go for somethin else!
In the end all matters is how much u love each other....bhel puris n snakes dont go with u all ur life. ;)
Cheerzz!
Very interesting and thought-provoking post, Puneet :)
Interesting perspective!! Nice. :-)
Hey Puneet! Real sweet post! I think for a relationship to work you do need to have a few things in common, but if you don't and it still works, then what the heck?! :D As the saying goes, opposites attract! And it seems to be true at least in your case! :)
Hey... pretty cool topic I must say :)!!! I believe opposite attracts!!!
When two persons are in love they do not mind in adapting certain nature or likingness as they dont find any harm in doing so...and I think thats a great match as...one appreciates the other...!
I was glad to read some of those points about U and ur GF...keep it cool and things will rock for yeah ;)
My best wishes for you both...may you fight all your life just to come more closer to eachother :)
Cheers buddy!
puneeet ... where r u re?????
st00nie also disappeared ... u guys eloped kya??
okok .. am kidding ...:p
pani puris .. yummmyyyyy can have anytime of the day :p
u scared of snakes..lolzzz
i too love cats ...
coming to ur Q...
What would be the selecting/deciding factor(s) you would see in this so-called closest relationship???
there is no selection factor wen u fall in love it just happens .. u try n accept the differences the goody goody part also the weaknesses
you try n get into the adjustment mode evn if u r not or very stubburn
no 2 individuals r same
nor anyone is perfect all have their strenghts n weaknesses..just that wat u call as love wipes the differences u start compromising n u accept the person the way he/ she is
thats how a relation is built on ... i think its the case even in friendship but not 100% obviously less than that :)
ok byeeeeeee
have a nice day!!!
get free fast from ur bujjy bujjy schedule
hugzzzzz
uttara
Opposites attract! My husband and i are not alike at all.
1. i am ALWAYS talking..and he is quiet..
2. i love to start conversations with random people...he is shy
3. i go return things so easily at stores, he never does that.
4. i am 5'4... he is 6'2 (hehehe)
5. he loves reading discover and national geographic... I cant stand it
6. he likes dr.pepper ----- thought of it makes me want to puke...
if we werent differnt..our lives would be so boring....it'd be like being with myself all over again, only the gender changed with some bonus ;)--- ahem!
i really love the fact that we are so differently alike.
i am so fortunate to have been married to Chinmay.
Arjun, DONT ever change yourself for anyone...you can tweak your habits, or the way you do things...but never change yourself...it almost neveer works....and the girl should like you for who you are..not what she prefers...!
Puneet, u and your gf shall continue in growing in differnt directions...u'll capture all the differences and be rich with all the excitement of life :)
Cheers.
@Pallavi
and the girl should like you for who you are..not what she prefers...
Thanks for the advice Pallavi...
I'll see to it that I'm not changing myself..coz if Im ready to accept her the way she is, she should repect me too na
Thanks once again.
Have a nice day ahead
Take care!!
@ Puneet... As u already said, yes Opposite attracts..
have u noticed one thing? When u are in love, u start liking the other person liking the most..May be u might have hated it earlier..
But lots of different interest is also not good in long run for any relationship.. After sometimes, u may end up doing things which u like or she may end up doing things which she like separetely... Giving the feel that care in relationship no more exist..
When one are in love, one get very little time to be together, so one feels they can adjust with it.. But when one is married & together for life, there may not be same stimulation..
@ Bhumi
Hiii…
I also don’t believe in love at first sight…
May be once in love we start liking the other person the way he/she is
Thanks dear for sharing ur opinion
Hey I heard the songs… I liked them… thanks so much
I was a bit buzy so couldn’t reply…
Thanks so much
Cheers
@ Cheesy
hiiiiii baby
....lol probably tht's why hez ma ex!
ooh gosh… ur scaring me now…
I think if the couple has same/similar taste, it wud be too too too boring...
Exactly… I’m with u ;-)
Nice thoughts dear… yes in the end wat matters is luv…
Thank u so much for expressing ur view
Cheers
@ Sayesha
Thank u
I was hoping for your Vishesh Tipaani ;-)
Cheers
@ Jay
Thank u and welcome to my Blog…
Keep dropping…
Cheers
@ Divya
hiiii
feel like hugging u both.. awww..
oooh dear… that’s choo chweet… huggzzzz
kacha limbu
hehehehe lolzzzz
Opposites do attract ;-)
Thank u dear
Cheers
@ phoenix rises
hiiii
Thank u so much
Yes I too agree few things should match…
Actually I’ve just listed down the differences… there are some similarities too ;-)
But still our choices are lot different …
Thanks dear
Cheers
@ Dawn
Thanks dear…
When two persons are in love they do not mind in adapting certain nature
that’s so true… yes we just naturally adapt to each other’s liking… and attimes we don’t realize also…
keep it cool and things will rock for yeah
that’s so sweet… thank u so much
My best wishes for you both
oooh dear… I need them loads… thanks a million…
So far I have sweet friends like you… I don’t have to worry about anything…
Cheers
@ Uttara
Hiiii…
No re unfortunately didn’t eloped with st000nie… she is waiting for her IM…
I was busy with my Induction… and we had a presentation… and yes our group won it… Bingooo
Thanks so much for sharing your view dear…
also the weaknesses
That’s so true… coz we all come with some weaknesses
I agree with your opinion…
But there is still a huge difference in the closest friendship and a love relationship… basically expectations… trust… luv… sacrifice is lot more in the later
I wont be online during the day time… might access the net
initial days of office… don’t want to spoil my reputation…
Take care
Cheers
@ Pallavi
Hey so sweet of you to share about you and your hubby…
Infact I just noticed that first 2 points stated by you apply in my case also ;-)
Lolzzzz
Hearing from you made me a lot more assured…
only the gender changed with some bonus ;)
Lolzzzz hahahahhaa
Tooo good…
i am so fortunate to have been married to Chinmay
ooh that’s so sweet… Chinmay is a lucky guy to have you… I knw that work lucky is inappropriate coz everyone gets what he/she deserves…
I would love to hear that statement from my GF… through out our lives ;-)
u'll capture all the differences and be rich with all the excitement of life :)
Thanks a million dear… I’m so happy to hear that…
I agree with you completely on the advice given to arz000n
Thanks so much for sharing your opinion…
Cheers
@ arz000n
all the best to you…
you have such sweet friends to care for you…
Take care
Cheers
BnB
Hiiiiii
Thanks for sharing your view dear…
u start liking the other person liking the most..May be u might have hated it earlier …
That’s true… we start liking the other person’s liking… but we never hated it earlier…
one get very little time to be together, so one feels they can adjust with it.. But when one is married & together for life, there may not be same stimulation..
This might be true for most of the current couples… who don’t give time n distance to a relationship to mature… but I personally don’t agree to it…
If one can’t be the same after marriage… then he/she was portraying a different picture…
Thanks so much dear… its great to know so many views…
Have fun
Cheeers
@ Kiran
Thanks for sharing you views…
Dedicated towards work n creativity are two things ;-)
Lolzzz kidding…
Thanks dear…. Still we do have some more things in common … ;-)
But let me tell u dear… there is a difference in knowing a person and knowing about a person… and trust me you still have got loads to knw about her and to knw her as a person...
I agree with you that trust n respect is very essential for a relationship… and I’m happy that you have realized it…
Take care
Cheers
hi!!!
me soo excited......entering your blog after.....i think 18 or 19 days......
its awesome!!!
its grt
the way u put the differences between your gf and u is perfeclty amazing and i just love your similarities within your differences
i know u both had made the example of perfect relationship and wish u both immortal togetherness ahead
hummm.....difference works in this special relationship...got the lesson :lol:.... kidding......
i believe it would be such a tough n pathetic relationahip to maintain when plp change acc to the choice of their loved one
abt sharing experience...hahaha..not yet hehehe and hope not to have in near future lollllllll
okay
punie take care
lots of luv
sorryyyyyyyyy mistake......it should be after 9 days
sorry i was thinking time of me being offline in meassenger n unknowingly wrote there
okay take care
luv
No matter what the physical and mental differences are, what matters is the feelings u share...
Hows ya pun000nie? ;-)
Looks like u neva missed me lol!
Keshi.
@ puneet ..
hiiiiiiiiiii
***No re unfortunately didn’t eloped with st000nie… she is waiting for her IM…
heheheh
****I was busy with my Induction… and we had a presentation… and yes our group won it… Bingooo
yepieeee wowwwww re .. congrats !!!
***Thanks so much for sharing your view dear…
some1 is being humble wid me .. do u have it in ur dictionary :p
***I agree with your opinion…
am faintinggggggggggggggg
he agrees wid my opinion ....lolzzzz
hugzzzz re but that is true very true i mean
****But there is still a huge difference in the closest friendship and a love relationship… basically expectations… trust… luv… sacrifice is lot more in the later
thats y i said not 100% ...i know its no where near it ...
***initial days of office… don’t want to spoil my reputation…
okok .. u keep up ur reputation all the best ...hehehhe
Enjoi ........
uttara
I also agree to wat keshi said ...
there is a friend of mine .. (my bros friend so mine too )
he fell in love with a gurl who dint have her right hand from her birth ...
but yes he stood by her n got married too .. so sweet na
@ Nitika
heyyyy
Welcome backkkk after a long time
Misssd u loadsss
i just love your similarities within your differences
thats soo sweet dear
example of perfect relationship
na na... no perfect relationship
just a healthy one ;-)
wish u both immortal togetherness ahead
Thanks a ton for that dear
Ye one should not change to keep the other person happy... it wont last long...
Dont worry u will have ur share of experience too...
I'll be waitn to hear from the horse's mouth
Thanks so much dear
Good to see u here
Have fun
Take care
Cheers
@ Nitika
9 days were equivalent to 19 days
;-)
keep smiling
cheers
@ Keshi
Hiiiiiiii sweeeetiiiiiiiiiii
WELCOME BACK
Hugggzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
HOWS U SWEETI
MISSD U LOADS
I too was not online dear...
U made my friday morning...
Thanks so much for sharing ur view....
Hugggzzzzzzzzzz
Cheers
@ Uttara
hiiii
Thank u...
Not being humble re... just dont want to be unreasonable...
which I know I'm not
;-)
See I dont disagree for the hec of it...
And sometimes u do talk sensible
;-)
hahahahaaaa
Hey sweet to knw about ur friend...
That needs courage...
Hats off...
Just stealed some time from office schedule...
Post lunch working is terrible yaar...
have a nice weekend
take care
Cheers
@ Chennai pages
Hi Welcome to my Blog
Thank u Uma for sharing ur thought...
and Keep dropping by
Cheers
@ ahaan
Hey good to see u after a long time...
Thanks so much for sharing ur opinion...
Bingoo I too live by that funda...
Cool one
Have fun
Cheers
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