Love is not a choice
You can choose
Who to care
Who to protect
Who to Share life with
But U can never choose
Who to fall in love with…
Coz
Love is not a choice
It’s DESTINY
This was a SMS forward I received couple of days back and it made me think for a while…
How true is it???
Can we actually choose whom to fall in love with… or it just happens…
How many qualities we have in our mind… (The andekha anjana concept of DDLJ) do we actually think of all those when we fall in love???
Do we tick mark or say, “Yes” or “No” against the so-called ‘perfect’ list we have in our mind for our lover...
"Chahat par bas nahin badi belagam hain
Har koi apne ishq ke dar par gulam hain"
I do agree that love is not a choice... its destiny...
it happens when we expect it the least... or with the person we never would have thought... or its so fast that we realise only after falling for it...
(I'm only talking about falling in love... not about a relationship... or staying with that person for life)
"Khata to tab ho jab hole dil kisi se kahe
Kisi ko chahate rehna koi khata to nahin"
What do you think... is it true ???
Who to care
Who to protect
Who to Share life with
But U can never choose
Who to fall in love with…
Coz
Love is not a choice
It’s DESTINY
This was a SMS forward I received couple of days back and it made me think for a while…
How true is it???
Can we actually choose whom to fall in love with… or it just happens…
How many qualities we have in our mind… (The andekha anjana concept of DDLJ) do we actually think of all those when we fall in love???
Do we tick mark or say, “Yes” or “No” against the so-called ‘perfect’ list we have in our mind for our lover...
"Chahat par bas nahin badi belagam hain
Har koi apne ishq ke dar par gulam hain"
I do agree that love is not a choice... its destiny...
it happens when we expect it the least... or with the person we never would have thought... or its so fast that we realise only after falling for it...
(I'm only talking about falling in love... not about a relationship... or staying with that person for life)
"Khata to tab ho jab hole dil kisi se kahe
Kisi ko chahate rehna koi khata to nahin"
What do you think... is it true ???
posted by PuNeEt at 8:30 AM
47 Comments:
ummmmm ... just read the title ...
love is not a choice ...
let me read it n come back again
hugssssss p00
so true p00 ... love is not choice its Destiny ...
no 1 know better then me ..lolzz
goshhhhh u will make me reveal my secrets kya ....
ummmmmmmmm nah nah i cant :P :P
n no ,v dont chose to fall for some 1 , it just happens ... it can be any1 re ... even ur best friend whome u know from ages n never felt like u love him/her n suddenly u realise u r fallen for him/her ...
or it can even happens with some 1 u meet for the 1st time ... wat v say love at first sight ..its really strange ....
p000 plz forward me that sms..lolzz
nice 1 re ... good re u shared it with us ... thnx chweetu
hugsss p000
I too!:)
even i agree with u puneet
I remember reading somewhere "You don't choose love,love chooses you."
Anything can happen.
I thought st000nie left blogging..now I see she took up a f/t job in Pu's blog..lollz! Hugggggggz st000nie I miss ya tonz! How u doing? All ok at ur end?
Love is not a choice...?
It sure isnt...cos u cant choose to love someone...it has to be natural. U cant force urself or someone else to love...it has to be natural. Just like a river flows naturally and gracefully, love shall too...just like that river meets so many barriers but cuts thru em and flows gently, love shall too...cos it's all natural and it shall be...
Keshi.
love @ when we are kids love can be destiny.
As we grow up we train our mind to get attracted at equals.
If it is not choice why guy fall for good looking girls,
ahaa...falling in luvv :-)...u can go lukin for luvv all ur life...and sumtimes luv cld happen wen u least expect it:-)...
i wish i cld say i believe the sms like everyone does here:-) but @boldnbeautiful...u have a point there! not always true but yes sumwhere our mind does get conditioned as we grow older...more mature...(not just abt luks though..!)...
sorry if i sound skeptical...cynical:-)!!
ummm...life teaches one a lot abt relationships..i wrote a post way back on sumthin similar "fallin in luv vs. bein in luvv" (abt what i felt when before i got married...lolz..still have to write the concluding part...!)http://ishipishi.blogspot.com/2005_10_28_ishipishi_archive.html
Puneet,
What a great post and at that so timely. i realise we can't really choose who to fall in love with. i agree with ya post completely and thank you for it.
*Smilies*
"pyar tho ek ehsas hain"
a sweet post from a sweet sweet guy...
It might seem like destiny, but we all have certain parameters in our minds.Fixed.There are some things we like, appreciate eg value systems, choice in music movies, reading, travelling, sports and when we find some other with similar choices where the chemistry is right we fall in love.I doubt its totally fate..I think some where there is a subconcious decision.
OOOOOH
Why is everyone around me talking about LOVE?
Its just not right to think about it. Let it flow.
Love is a feeling which grows in one...without one's awareness...so one shouldn't bother...sirf ehasaas hai ye...iise koi aur naam na do :)
Good post...
cheers
Yes love is no choice. Love is blind, its also deaf, dumb and stupid :)
Damn!! "LOVE" topic again??hehe..i love this topic actually ^_^ hmmm..
"Don't find love,let love find you.That's why it's called falling in love,because you don't force yourself to fall...you just fall!!
hugs,
-kathy-
me agrees,
in a way love happens accidentally.
coutrsy LAFS.
also me thinks,
even in LAFS , our heart internally chooses n accepts that person @ the nick of the moment.
again i say, different strokes for diff't folks :))
i think it is true ........
if we start thinking rationally and fall in love consciously with somebody then........it becomes something else rather than love.....
it is natural...
it just happens ....
it is destiny....
and if we after that if we could be happy with the loved one for ever then that is the greatest joy ever..!!!
cya Puneet
Ash
Hi :)
I agree .... u can never decide who u wanna fall in love with ... itz a crazy concept ... i dont know how to explain it !
I dont even know if itz destiny.
ur last post was so sweet ... for a min, i thought u were talking abt ur GF ...
even my guy friends are passionately attached to their bikes .... even i am attached to my KH
This is really bad, I never did little expected.
hahaha lol When u have so many female blogmate following, No Woman Day's post ;) wink wink
yep i agree...
I remember wen i small and would see pretty girls fall for bad guys...i used to always say "are these girls mad??? how can they fall in love with such guys!!!", to which my friend would say,"love just happens, with anyone,you don't say, ok he has these many qualities ...fine now i can fall in love with him...it just happens"...
i used to scoff at such things...yea i used to say, i will never let that happen!!
but today i feel, love just happens. and wen it does your list of perfect lover just changes or maybe then it doesnt really matter!!
i agree, love is not a choice...but whether to love or not is definitely one's choice!!
if i want to fall in love i can anytime with right or wrong person...but if i don't want to fall in love i will never do so...cause i believe to fall in love 1st we need to make space for this new special person in our life only then can we find love...that's wat i think:)
Im reminded of that hindi movie cliche.....pyaar kiya nahi jaata, ho jaata hai :P
@ strawy
hugsssss soniye
no re... ur secrets will be with me only ;-) lols
very true...
one can fall in luv wth any1
:-))
thanks for sharing ur thought dear
hugggsss huggsss
Cheers
@ zombie
:-)> Cheers
@ manish
:-)> Cheers
@ nagraj
lol...every1 seems to agree
cool
:-))
@ tarun
nice quote... very true :-))
@ keshi
lol @ st000nie...
she can't quit my blog unless I do ;-) hehee
ye rightly said...
luv has to be natural
beautifully linked with river...
:-))
thanks dear
Cheers
boldnbeautiful
thats not love for sure...
good looking girls... is again perception... still they end up with only 1... thr r so many good looking girls... am sure one cant have the same feelings for all
:-)>
Cheers
@ neetika
am perfectly fine :-)
I'm in love since long :-)
I guess my blog says that ;-)
thanks dear
take care
Cheers
@ ishita
very true dear...
it happns wen we least expect it
well i feel... if our mind n heart can't be free... the feeling can't be that pure... for me... its not love then... :-))
am not talking abt relationships...
thats different...
i'll surely check ur blog :-)
n sorry for not replying to ur mail... just a bit tied up :-)
Cheers
@ jewel rays
??? @ so timely
y so
:-)) smiles :-))
Cheers
@ gangadhar
i'm having problem accessing ur blog... everytime I get on to ur blog it gives me I/E error and it closes all the I/E windows... :-(
thanks so much @ post
Cheers
@ sophia
yes ...
ek ehsaas hain...
jo na jane kab dil mey jagah bana leta hain...
hum dhundte hain jise zamane mey
uska chehra woh nigahon mey chupa leta hain ;-)
:-)) Cheers
@ educatedunemployed
does the person we choose always fall within those parameters...
choices in musics n all is very basic... I dun think those things make one fall in luv...
atleast not me...
a post on similar lines...
http://puneetdreamz.blogspot.com/2005/10/we-are-so-different-yet-so-similar.html
:-)) ne ways its diff for diff people ;-) am sure therez no rule :-))
Cheers
@ rohit
ye its flowing like blood now ;-)
lols
Cheers
@ jigal
Hiii
ye u can say that :-)
thank u buddy
tk cr
Cheers
dawn
haan ji sirf ehsaas hain :-)
I replied to sophia 4 the same :-)
thank u
Cheers
@ dewdrop
ROFL...
very true :-)
Cheers
@ lil_kath
again ???
its always there ;-)
hehehe
very well said dear :-)
huggsss
Cheers
@ sridhar
:-) may be yess :-))
true... its diff for diff people :-)
thanks buddy
Cheers
@ ash
yess even i feel the same :-)
if we after that if we could be happy with the loved one for ever then that is the greatest joy ever..!!!
so true
thanks dear
Cheers
@ deepa
heey welcome backkkkkk
dun explain...
even i can't do it...
:-))
thanks so much @ last post
KH was the first vehicle i took on roads ;-)
thanks dear
Cheers
@ bnb
i dun believe in all that...
;-)
n am a bit tied up also :-)
hehee
Cheers
@ michelle
:-)> Cheers
@ yashita
very well said dear...
i agree with u completely :-)
lols @ pretty girls falling for bad guys...
wat do u mean by bad guys
hmmmm hahahhaa
ye that perfect list doesnt matter :-)
kaafi experience lagta hain ;-)
lols
thanks so much
take care
Cheers
@ dewdrop
lols
:-))
Cheers
donknow whether it just happen or we choose to fall but if I have to say...I think...love never happens in the unconscious state....its a wonderful feeling n it deserve all the senses to feel so wen u r in normal state u know wat ur choice are I mean ur heart certainly fall in that person who has that especial qualities (in a way to coincide ur perfect list)...ur need for perfection is the choice of heart...if luv is the special connection of two heart then it definitely interconnect with the one which ur heart feel is made for u....i guess!!!n i'm confused with ma own verdict now....lolzzz
hugzz
**she can't quit my blog unless I do
is that ur excuse not to quit blogging? lol!
Keshi.
@ nitika
hey dear
the confused lady ;-)
lolsss
ur need for perfection is the choice of heart...
well well well
i dun think so :-)
i think its the choice of ur mind... ;-)
neways... it depends on person to persn isnt it :-)
btw r u not updating ur blog :-(
tk cr
hugss
@ keshi
lol
may be yes :-)
Chees
and i still love my KH
i think its the choice of ur mind
hehe...is it so...u making me more confuse...lol..
updating work has been done!..phew..heeeeee
@ Deepa
LOL
so sweet :-))
Cheers
@ Nitika
hahahhaa
keep thinkng ;-)
lols
ye good to see u back :-)
Cheers
Simple I dont believe in Love :)
I just believe in flirting he hehehe
@ BnB
Cool...
U will be happy always :-))
Cheers
if love was a choice and as choices are rational, two of the most wrongest people for each other wouldnt fall in love
i liked this post. it was paaru
and hey puneet
*waves*
I come to ur post and really find good stuff
its just my brain that forgets the URL.
I need to bookmark
@Bold and beautiful, hehehh...so some1 like me :)...true, i believe flirting too!!!
it's so much fun!!isn't it:)
love is not a choice? lol okkk then Pu...u can tell this tp ur GF cos we r coming to ur wedding with the e-kids...hai na st000nie?
Keshi.
Hmmm
You have to choose someone you firstly that u will love!
If the other one loves ya too its all good!
Sometimes we rely too much on destiny but its actually us who does it all!
It's not destiny that makes us come across someone no!
We can anytime cross our ways
But you see, we humans rely too much on destiny that we never praise ourselves of what we did rather its destiny that made it do
But its ur actions that makes destiny
Destiny doesnt makes u, U make destiny
@ Yashita long live the flirt group :)
hahaha @ Wanderer You have to choose someone you firstly that u will love!
I would like to choose many
@ Sadaf
very true dear
well said :-))
puneet waves back ;-)
have fun
Cheers
@ kumar chetan
lols bookmark fast ;-)
thanks for the appreciation :-)
Cheers
@ yashita
enjoy...
am born with it ;-)
lols
Cheers
@ keshi
my GF kws it ;-)
u girls r mostttt welcome :-))
Cheers
@ wanderer
lols buddy
thats a nice look out...
wish u all the best in making ur own destiny :-))
Cheers
@ BnB
ooops new profile pic...
lemme see
lols @ choose many :-)
Cheers
Nice lines in hindi :)
luv as in relationship might be destiny ... if u luv a person it has to be someone special.. u dont fall in luv with everyone
but luv happens... u dont make it happen... no matter how hard one tries
@ sudeep
hey thanks buddy
appreciate that u took out time to read...
genrlly people only read the latest post :-)
very well said
i agree with u...
ye it happens...
wen whr how... all is big ?
have fun
Cheers
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